
• We’d juggle careers, playdates, housework, meal prep, birthday parties, sports, and bedtime stories — and somehow still feel (and even look) like our pre-children selves.
• We’d stay patient.
• We’d stop the yelling, never hit or spank, and never use shaming labels and judgments that we grew up with.
• We’d raise emotionally intelligent kids and break the generational patterns that hurt us.
• We’d do it all....

We live in a time where...
Support systems are fractured.
Expectations are sky-high.
And we’re carrying emotional legacies from generations before us — all while trying to raise kids in an overstimulated, disconnected world.
So we strive harder, read more, try every strategy, and still end up wondering:
“Why do I still lose it at my kids?”
“Why does it feel like we’re all walking on eggshells?”
“Why, after all the work I’ve done, does parenting still feel like a struggle?”
🪷 “The lotus flower blooms most beautifully from the deepest mud.” — Buddhist Proverb
That’s what this journey is about — turning the messy, mucky, human parts of parenting into fertile ground for growth, wisdom, and connection.

The lotus doesn’t grow despite the mud — it grows because of it.
Its roots draw strength and nourishment from the very conditions that would seemingly hold it down.
Your family’s dynamic is a living ecosystem.
When one part changes, it impacts all the other parts...
and then the trajectory of your family and your children's lives literally shifts!
🌸 Learn trauma-informed parenting strategies that work with — not against — your child’s brain and nervous system
🌸 Build tools for emotional regulation (yours and your child’s) so calm replaces chaos
🌸 Shift from guilt, yelling, or people-pleasing into grounded confidence
🌸 Create cooperation without bribes or punishments
🌸 Gain clarity on your attachment style, start to develop secure attachment, build strong boundaries, and create lasting family connection
🌸 Grow alongside a community of parents who “get it” and are walking the same path
2 Intention Setting and Parent Preparation Sessions in December as we head into the new year before the official first class!





Each stage of The Lotus Path mirrors the lotus flower’s life cycle — from muddy beginnings to radiant bloom. It’s a pathway for your personal and parenting evolution — grounded in The B.A.L.A.N.C.E Code, a framework The Confidence Coach Ashley Anjlien Kumar created, to help parents.

2 Intention Setting and Parent Preparation Sessions in December as we head into the new year before the official first class!


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