
• We’d juggle careers, playdates, housework, meal prep, birthday parties, sports, and bedtime stories — and somehow still feel (and even look) like our pre-children selves.
• We’d stay patient.
• We’d stop the yelling, never hit or spank, and never use shaming labels and judgments that we grew up with.
• We’d raise emotionally intelligent kids and break the generational patterns that hurt us.
• We’d do it all....

We live in a time where...
Support systems are fractured.
Expectations are sky-high.
And we’re carrying emotional legacies from generations before us — all while trying to raise kids in an overstimulated, disconnected world.
So we strive harder, read more, try every strategy, and still end up wondering:
“Why do I still lose it at my kids?”
“Why does it feel like we’re all walking on eggshells?”
“Why, after all the work I’ve done, does parenting still feel like a struggle?”
🪷 “The lotus flower blooms most beautifully from the deepest mud.” — Buddhist Proverb
That’s what this journey is about — turning the messy, mucky, human parts of parenting into fertile ground for growth, wisdom, and connection.

The lotus doesn’t grow despite the mud — it grows because of it.
Its roots draw strength and nourishment from the very conditions that would seemingly hold it down.
Your family’s dynamic is a living ecosystem.
When one part changes, it impacts all the other parts...
and then the trajectory of your family and your children's lives literally shifts!
🌸 Learn trauma-informed parenting strategies that work with — not against — your child’s brain and nervous system
🌸 Build tools for emotional regulation (yours and your child’s) so calm replaces chaos
🌸 Shift from guilt, yelling, or people-pleasing into grounded confidence
🌸 Create cooperation without bribes or punishments
🌸 Gain clarity on your attachment style, start to develop secure attachment, build strong boundaries, and create lasting family connection
🌸 Grow alongside a community of parents who “get it” and are walking the same path

2 Intention Setting and Parent Preparation Sessions in December as we head into the new year before the official first group call. ($300 Value)
For a 2-part Payment plan, please email [email protected] as soon as possible so we can arrange that for you!




Each stage of The Lotus Path mirrors the lotus flower’s life cycle — from muddy beginnings to radiant bloom. It’s a pathway for your personal and parenting evolution — grounded in The B.A.L.A.N.C.E Code, a framework The Confidence Coach Ashley Anjlien Kumar created, to help parents.



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